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23 December – Season of Advent

Posted on Sunday, November 17, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in 23 December, Advent, Weekday Leave a comment

Earlier we saw how Zechariah was struck dumb for not believing the angel Gabriel’s message. In today’s Gospel, we see Zechariah redeeming himself and getting his power of speech back when he gave his support to Elizabeth by insisting that the child be named John.

Sometimes in life, we may have committed sin and we suffer the consequences. However, we are given opportunities to make right what we had done wrong. Are we doing penance for our sins and building our relationship with God? Are we humble enough, like Zechariah, to do the right thing? Ultimately, we must take responsibility for our actions and conduct. God gives us opportunities to come back to Him, let us not squander away these opportunities and lose our life.

4th Sunday of Advent Year A

Posted on Saturday, November 16, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in Advent, Advent 4, Sunday, Year A Leave a comment

What’s in a name? As parents-to-be, it is important to think carefully and consider the consequences of giving your child a particular name. Sometimes, we may not be aware of the meaning of the name and what it would mean according to different languages. For example, a person named Ho Chin Chai may appear to have an innocent name, but in Hokkien language, “Ho” means “very” and “Chin Chai” sounds like “cincai” in Bahasa Malaysia, which means “simply”; “casually”; “do as one pleases”; “without thought” or “randomly”. Another example is if a person has a surname “Chan” and has a given name like “Bella” or “Isabella.” The person would then be known as “Bella Chan” or “Isabella Chan.” Sounds like an ok name, but if you look at it in Bahasa Malaysia, the name would become “belacan” or “is a belacan”! “Belacan” is shrimp paste or shrimp sauce, a common ingredient used in Southeast Asian and Southern Chinese cuisine. It would be quite embarrassing if a teacher or some one would to call out, “Belacan, come see me now.” So, it is important to choose a name wisely, otherwise one may face a lifetime of ridicule, teasing and embarrassment.

As Catholics, we are also advised to choose a baptism and/or confirmation name wisely. We are encouraged to choose a name of a saint, one whose example we could follow and imitate. In today’s Gospel, the angel of the Lord commands Joseph to name the child Jesus, “because he is the one who is to save his people from their sins.” The name ‘Jesus’ means ‘God saves.’ Throughout the Gospels, we would see that Jesus truly lives up to his name as our saviour and redeemer. Jesus is also known, in today’s First Reading and Gospel as “Emmanuel, a name which means ‘God-is-with-us.'” God has taken the initiative to come close to us and has become one of us, instead of we trying to come close to Him.

Seeing how important it is for us to choose a name wisely, let us reflect on the name given to us. Is it a name of a saint? Are we living up to our name by following and imitating the saint’s example? Our names are not a trivial or “cincai” matter. May God help us to be worthy of the name given to us.

Housekeeping – 3rd Week of Advent

Posted on Saturday, November 16, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in Housekeeping, Sunday, Weekday Leave a comment

For your easy reference, the following is a list of weeks and years with their corresponding date:

15 December 2013 – 3rd Sunday of Advent Year A
16 December 2013 – Monday of the 3rd Week of Advent
17 December 2013 – 17 December – Season of Advent
18 December 2013 – 18 December – Season of Advent
19 December 2013 – 19 December – Season of Advent
20 December 2013 – 20 December – Season of Advent

20 December – Season of Advent

Posted on Saturday, November 16, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in 20 December, Advent, Weekday Leave a comment

If Zechariah is an example of doubt, even when a message is given by an angel, in today’s Gospel, we see an example of trust and total dependence on God. Mary did ask the angel Gabriel: “But how can this come about, since I am a virgin?” The difference here is that Mary accepted and believed in the angel’s message by responding: “I am the handmaid of the Lord, let what you have said be done to me.”

Supposing we received a message from an angel, would we unreservedly and willingly accept and act on the message? Or would we allow doubt to take over?

19 December – Season of Advent

Posted on Saturday, November 16, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in 19 December, Advent, Weekday Leave a comment

Many of us may have been influenced by cute or beautiful pictures of angels. However, angels are far from cute. When an angel appears, it can be a terrifying and majestic sight. We read in today’s Gospel that Zechariah was overcome with fear and the angel said to him, “Zechariah, do not be afraid…”

We know that it is highly unlikely for an elderly woman to become pregnant and bear a child. We also know that when an angel appears, it is usually for an important message from God. In this case, the angel Gabriel appeared to Zechariah to give him some great news: his wife would bear him a son. Such words from an angel should not be taken lightly. Yet, Zechariah still doubted the angel’s words. By doing so, Zechariah seems to have doubted God. As a result, Zechariah as the Gospel tells us, “was silenced and have no power of speech until this has happened.”

When we receive such amazing and mind-boggling news from an angel, what do we do? Do we doubt even the words of an angel? Do we begin to think that perhaps our mind is playing tricks on us and what we are seeing is merely an illusion, what we are hearing is merely an imagination? Or do we trust the angel’s words and trust God, just like Mary did when she said: “I am the handmaid of the Lord, let what you have said be done to me.”?

18 December – Season of Advent

Posted on Friday, November 15, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in 18 December, Advent, Weekday Leave a comment

If you are engaged to a person and you found out that she is with child, how would you respond? Some might walk away from the relationship. Others might decide to remain faithful and committed to the person despite of the situation she is in. What about you?

In today’s Gospel, we see Joseph finding himself in a difficult and possibly dangerous situation. He was betrothed (something like being engaged in modern times) to Mary, but until they were properly married according to Jewish law, sex was not allowed and was considered adultery. A woman found pregnant during the betrothal could be stoned to death. Because of this, Joseph “being a man of honour and wanting to spare her publicity, decided to divorce her informally.” However, when the angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, “he did what the angel of the Lord had told him to do: he took his wife to his home.”

Joseph knew that the child would not be biologically his, he knew there would be difficulties and challenges ahead, he knew Mary and he could be a source of gossip; and yet he was docile and humble enough to trust in the Lord. Would we be able to follow Joseph’s example and do the same if we were in a similar situation?

17 December – Season of Advent

Posted on Friday, November 15, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in 17 December, Advent, Weekday Leave a comment

Family trees. Each and every one of us has a family tree. Some of us have managed to trace our family tree right to the earliest times. Some have only been partially successful. But one thing we may discover about our family tree is this: our ancestors were a mixed bag of good and not so good people. Each of our ancestors (nenek-moyang, as some like to say in Bahasa Malaysia) had their strengths and weaknesses. Sometimes, when we look at our family tree, we begin to realise and appreciate those who had paved the way to who and what we are today.

Today’s Gospel introduces us to Jesus’ family tree. This family tree is divided into 3 lists of 14: 14 patriarchs; 14 kings; and 14 generations from the Babylonian captivity to Jesus. Within each list, there were good and bad persons, showing us that God does not choose those who are the best from the human point of view, but from God’s point of view.

We can also see that 4 women are included, 3 of whom are named: Tamar, Rahab and Ruth. Bathsheba is not named but mentioned as “Uriah’s wife.” These 4 women were Gentiles either by birth or through marriage. Tamar, Rahab and Ruth were Gentiles by birth. Bathsheba, an Israelite, became Gentile through her marriage to Uriah, the Hittite. This shows that Jesus had Gentile as well as Jewish ancestors.

When we see Jesus’ family tree, we begin to realise and appreciate God’s plan of salvation for all of us. Regardless of whether we are Jew or Gentile, saint or sinner; God can write straight with crooked lines and some of those crooked lines are our lives. As long as we are open to His pruning and guidance, we can be a part of God’s plan. Let us then rise, and walk in His ways.

Monday of the 3rd Week of Advent

Posted on Friday, November 15, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in 3rd Week, Advent, Advent 3, Monday, Weekday Leave a comment

“Jangan cari pasal,” is a Bahasa Malaysia phrase which is translated as “Don’t look for trouble.” In today’s Gospel, we see the chief priests and the elders of the people trying to “cari pasal” with Jesus, hoping to find some excuse to trap Him. They challenged Him by asking: “What authority have you for acting like this? And who gave you this authority?” They knew who Jesus was but refused to admit and acknowledge Him. When Jesus questioned them back, they themselves fell into the very trap which they had tried to set on Jesus.

In our lives, we too may be guilty of trying to “cari pasal” with others, especially when we think we are smarter, better qualified, or better off than they are. We think we can put other people down or belittle them and get away with it. But, as Jesus has shown us, sometimes we may just end up eating humble pie or we may end up making a fool of ourselves. Are we allowing our ego to swell and take control of our lives? Or are we willing to walk humbly in God’s presence?

3rd Sunday of Advent Year A

Posted on Friday, November 15, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in Advent, Advent 3, Sunday, Year A Leave a comment

We live in a world where everything must be done fast. We have ATMs for instant cash, we have credit cards for instant credit, we have instant coffee, instant noodles, instant this, instant that. But there are also many situations where we need to wait, to be patient. For example, babies are not conceived and born in a day or a week. It takes about 9 months of waiting and preparing. Nobody gets a degree after only one class. Most people need to study 2 or 3 years for a basic degree. Building a house cannot be completed too quickly. We need to ensure that a strong and secure foundation has been established before the building can commence. When we eat, we cannot shove everything into our mouth and swallow at one go. We may choke or get indigestion as a result.

Even waiting for the Lord’s coming requires us to be patient. In the first reading, we are told: “Look, your God is coming, vengeance is coming, the retribution of God; he is coming to save you.” When is the Lord coming to save us? We do not know. So we need to be patient. In the second reading, we are
reminded: “Be patient, brothers, until the Lord’s coming… You too have to be patient; do not lose heart, because the Lord’s coming will be soon.” Here, we should be patient and not lose heart. The Gospel today also echos our need to be patient and not lose heart, as Jesus tells us: “happy is the man who does not lose faith in me.”

Seeing that we need to be patient and not lose heart, let us make a choice. We could choose to trust God, or we could choose to do things our way. Whatever choice we may wish make, we must be prepared to face the consequences.

Housekeeping – 2nd Week of Advent

Posted on Thursday, November 14, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in Housekeeping, Sunday, Weekday Leave a comment

For your easy reference, the following is a list of weeks and years with their corresponding date:

8 December 2013 – 2nd Sunday of Advent Year A
9 December 2013 – The Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary – Solemnity
10 December 2013 – Tuesday of the 2nd Week of Advent
11 December 2013 – Wednesday of the 2nd Week of Advent
12 December 2013 – Thursday of the 2nd Week of Advent
13 December 2013 – Friday of the 2nd Week of Advent

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