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Friday Week 2 Year 2

Posted on Tuesday, December 31, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in 2nd, Weekday, Year 2 Leave a comment

There are times we may realise that we are not merciful and loving enough. Sometimes, we demand justice at all costs, and when we have gotten justice, we may not be fully satisfied or happy.

Today’s reading shows us that David’s men wanted justice against Saul and they thought they had an excellent opportunity to claim justice and get rid of Saul. But David chose to be merciful to Saul, even though Saul was all out to destroy him. David even forbade his men from harming Saul in any way. This shows the uprightness and character of David.

Have we learnt to be merciful and loving? Or are we always demanding an eye for an eye? Some of us may have asked God to forgive us our trespasses, but we may fail to realise that we too need to forgive others who trespass against us. Let us strive and learn to be more loving and forgiving, for “An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind. (Mahatma Gandhi)”

Thursday Week 2 Year 2

Posted on Tuesday, December 31, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in 2nd, Weekday, Year 2 Leave a comment

Jealousy is the fear that something which we possess will be taken away by another person. When we are jealous, we could begin to commit greater sins to prevent others from possessing what we think is rightfully ours.

Today’s reading tells us that Saul was jealous of David because of David’s increasing popularity. Because David was becoming more popular, Saul began to worry that he may eventually lose his kingship to David. As a result, Saul began to think of ways and means to get rid of David to ensure the kingship remained his. We see another classic example of this where king Herod tried to get rid of the infant Jesus by killing the Holy Innocents. Saul and Herod were both very jealous men and they had no qualms about killing their competition in an effort to preserve their authority.

What about us? Have we been so jealous that we belittle or put down others? Sometimes in ministry, some of us may have been jealous of others who are more capable and talented. We may think that a particular position in a ministry belongs to us, and we may commit sin when we gossip, commit character assassination, etc. just to preserve the status quo. Are we humble enough to be willing to nurture others and help them grow so that they can one day take over leadership of a ministry? Or has jealously made us blind and hardened our hearts?

Wednesday Week 2 Year 2

Posted on Monday, December 30, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in 2nd, Weekday, Year 2 Leave a comment

There are times God appears to have an interesting sense of humour. In today’s reading, we see this sense of humour appearing in a subtle form.

Since the Israelites had rejected God as their King, they were allowed to have Saul as their king. It is obvious that Saul was not doing so well as a king, since the battle with the Philistines was not going in the Israelite’s favour. Saul even relented to let David go fight Goliath, hoping that perhaps God would be with the boy. Perhaps Saul realised that he did not have any other option, since none of his other warriors wanted to take the risk and challenge Goliath.

So David goes forth to challenge Goliath. In the reading, he says: “You come against me with sword and spear and javelin, but I come against you in the name of the Lord of Hosts, the God of the armies of Israel that you have dared to insult…” Here, we see the subtle form of God’s humour. It’s like saying; the Israelites chose Saul and what did they get? A person whom they thought could help them win battles, only to find that the person is not up to the task. On the other hand, God wins battles and His track record has been great. In this case, David slew Goliath with the help of God. Saul would not have been is able to do so on his own. So who is the real king the Israelites should have been faithful to, obeyed and followed?

In our lives, we too may have tried to win battles on our own and failed miserably. Let us not solely depend on our own strength, but on God’s help and providence, for it is He who can really help us.

Tuesday of Week 2 Year 2

Posted on Monday, December 30, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in 2nd, Weekday, Year 2 Leave a comment

When we go for a job interview, often the interviewer would look at the type of qualifications the interviewee has obtained. The interviewee’s mannerisms, attitude, behaviour, appearance and other factors may also play a part on whether the interviewee is successful or not. Even in a relationship, some people seem to look more at the externals of a person, thinking that the more attractive ones are more desirable.

However, God looks at us differently. Today’s reading tells us that “God does not see as man sees; man looks at appearances but the Lord looks at the heart.” Our innermost being, often what many of us may overlook, is what God sees. Some of us may play games in the presence of others and appear to get away with it, but we cannot hide from God. Let us thus be genuine and true, for it is better to be who we are, rather than living a lie.

Monday of Week 2 Year 2

Posted on Monday, December 30, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in 2nd, Monday, Weekday, Year 2 Leave a comment

If God were to instruct you to do something, would you do it? Most of us would say yes immediately, but whether we follow through with what we say and get the task done is a different matter. Sometimes God may be asking us to do something which we find unpleasant or not according to our hopes and dreams. When such a situation happens, how would we respond? It is easy to say that we love God and would obey Him, but in reality, how many of us really and honestly do so?

In today’s reading, Samuel warned Saul that Saul had disobeyed God’s command. Samuel said: “Is the pleasure of the Lord in holocausts and sacrifices or in obedience to the voice of the Lord? Yes, obedience is better than sacrifice, submissiveness better than the fat of rams. Rebellion is a sin of sorcery, presumption a crime of teraphim.” Because of Saul’s disobedience, God rejected Saul as king, since Saul had rejected the word of the Lord. We too could fall into the same situation if we refuse to listen and obey God’s command. Are we ready to change our stubborn ways and walk humbly in God’s presence? Or have our hearts become so hardened and obstinate?

Housekeeping – Week 1 Year 2

Posted on Sunday, December 29, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in Housekeeping, Sunday, Weekday Leave a comment

For your easy reference, the following is a list of weeks and years with their corresponding date:

13 January 2014 – Monday of Week 1 Year 2
14 January 2014 – Tuesday of Week 1 Year 2
15 January 2014 – Wednesday of Week 1 Year 2
16 January 2014 – Thursday of Week 1 Year 2
17 January 2014 – Friday of Week 1 Year 2

2nd Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A

Posted on Saturday, December 28, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in 2nd, Ordinary Time, Sunday, Year A Leave a comment

As leaders of different ministries in church, some of us may begin to think that the ministry we are in or even the church we serve would collapse if we are not around. Some people think that it is their God-given right to be the leader of a particular ministry. Some even think that their point of view and ideas are the only ones which should be noted.

However, today’s Gospel shows us a different attitude towards ministry. John the Baptist pointed out Jesus to his own disciples, saying: “Look, there is the lamb of God that takes away the sins of the world.” By doing so, John revealed his humility as he knew who he was and he was willing to step aside and let Jesus take over. Humility is not putting oneself down, but knowing one’s purpose and knowing when to lead and when to let go and move on.

As we reach a certain stage in life, we should follow the example of John the Baptist. There comes a time when we are no longer spring chicken and can no longer do certain things. Our purpose is to be witnesses for Christ. We need to point others to Jesus and not draw attention to ourselves. We should not treat our being in ministry as a popularity contest. Humility means knowing our identity and mission, and knowing how to help others grow and eventually take over. We must remember that we are not the Master, but merely servants. We are apostles and not the Saviour. Let us be humble and gracious enough to do our part, so that God’s Kingdom, not ours, will grow and prosper.

Friday of Week 1 Year 2

Posted on Friday, December 27, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in 1st, Friday, Weekday, Year 2 Leave a comment

“Be careful what you wish for” is an English idiom which warns us that if you get things that you desire, there may be unforeseen and unpleasant consequences. In the case of today’s reading, this idiom is clearly relevant.

The Israelites were not happy and not content with Samuel leading them, and as a result were not happy to be ruled by God. They wanted an earthly king, despite the fact that they had God, a much more powerful and dependable king. Samuel was not happy with their request and even warned them of the consequences of seeking an earthly king, but they just did not want to listen. The Israelites still wanted an earthly king. So Samuel, with the permission of God, gave them a king. The rest, as we know it, is history. Time and again we see how many of the Israelite kings failed in their responsibilities and brought grief to the nation, even leading them into exile.

What about us? Are we letting ourselves be ruled by an earthly king? Or have we learnt to depend on our eternal king? Are we still stubborn in thinking that our earthly kings can really help us grow and prosper? Or are we willing to humbly walk in the presence of our eternal king, who we can depend on in this world and in the next? Indeed, “be careful what you wish for,” for sometimes what we want may not necessarily be good for us.

Thursday of Week 1 Year 2

Posted on Friday, December 27, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in 1st, Thursday, Weekday, Year 2 Leave a comment

Sometimes we ask God for things, and when we don’t get what we want, we begin to try to bargain with God. Some of us may even resort to other forms of help, including bomohs, feng shui, divinations, seances, etc, hoping that we would still get what we want. Some of us may get angry and upset that God seems mean or stingy, not wanting to help us. However, the point is this: are we trying to control God? Must God grant our desires at all times? Because if we expect God to do our bidding, then we become a god. We become more powerful than God.

Today’s reading shows us that Israel tried to force God to help them win their battles against the Philistines. They brought the ark of God to their camp, thinking that God will have no choice but to protect them and help them. However, as we see at the end of the reading, God will not kow tow to their bidding. God helps them according to His terms, not according to their demands. Even if the ark is captured at that point of time, God is not perturbed. What about us? Are there times we have been guilty in trying to make God answer our prayers? Have we forgotten who we are? Let us take heed and let God be God, fully trusting that He loves us and knows what is best for us.

Wednesday of Week 1 Year 2

Posted on Friday, December 27, 2013 by Andrew Kooi Posted in 1st, Wednesday, Weekday, Year 2 Leave a comment

Are you being called by God to a particular way of life? Some of us may be called to married life, some to religious life, others to the priesthood. How do we know that we are being called? Today’s reading shows us one way that God may call us. Here, God called Samuel 3 times. At first, Eli did not have a clue who was calling the boy Samuel, and Samuel himself too did not have a clue, for “Samuel had as yet no knowledge of the Lord and the word of the Lord had not yet been revealed to him.” It was only at the third time that “Eli then understood that it was the Lord who was calling the boy.”

God may be calling us to a particular way of life, just as He called Samuel. Have we discovered which way of life is God calling us to? Have we spoken to others who may be able to advise us? Are we ready to respond, like Samuel: “Speak, Lord, your servant is listening.” In this world with so many distractions and attractions, it may be difficult to hear the voice of God calling us. Let us open our hearts and listen earnestly, that we may discover His call.

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